20 June 2016

Otso's 32nd Month

Summary
Otso is straddling the line between baby and kid. He likes to play with his sister and her friends, and isn't interested in baby toys. But he loves to cuddle and this month he has regressed to sleeping in a crib. 


Events
21.5 play with Helena
22.5 tram museum, over at Helena's house for Joachim's birthday
28.5 Victoria's birthday party
29.5 play date at Oliver's house
5 - 9.6 isä gone
6.6 helmine joined us for dinner
11.6 helena joined us for dinner
18.6 Maja birthday party 
19.6 Raija birthday party 
20.6 toni joined us for dinner

Learning/Development
Both kids have been enjoying a new chore: throwing the trash bags down the chute. kimmo closes and ties the bags and then leaves them in the kitchen. the first kid who finds it is allowed to throw it out (open the door to the service elevator closet, open the hatch to the chute, put the bag in the hole, and close the chute).

He is learning colors. His current toothbrush is blue and red and often when he points out something blue he says "like my toothbrush." 

30.5 we had a meeting with the barnehage teacher (Frank). Otso seems to be progressing at the normal rate across the board. We did some troubleshooting about the potty accidents, and agreed that next year he will go upstairs to the Mango group instead of being in Kiwi with the babies.

Language
Often when he doesn't understand something you say, he'll repeat it with a questioning voice.
 - me: You probably want to use a spoon to eat that.
 - otso: "use a spoon to eat that?"
It's usually very polite and cute.

" Shrek " is " feck "
"Lightning McQueen" is "Lightneen McKeem"

Toys/Games/Other
After he recently saw the movie "Cars", Kimmo produced toy McQueen and Sally cars. Otso thinks he is McQueen and Lumi is Sally, and often he makes a point of bringing the toy Sally to Lumi. Lumi sometimes likes this but often does not and it can get very frustrating for both of them because Otso continues to try to hand it to her even after multiple "I don't want it!" statements from Lumi.

28.5 we watched Cars 2. He yelled at the screen almost the entire movie, enthusiastic about seeing characters: "there's my car!"  "there's lumi's car!" "there's Mater! " He was very loud and the rest of us don't know what happened in the movie because we missed most of the audio due to Otso. 

Social
He has a couple favorite teachers at barnehage (Signe is the #1) and doesn't seem to like some others. He still isn't really interested in his peers.

At the birthday party on 28.5, i got to watch him with his peers from barnehage. He took a while to warm up, but eventually spent a very happy 20 minutes with a little group on the balcony, tossing balloons over the railing to the ground below and pretending to be very sad about it (until someone retrieved a balloon for them, at which point it was merrily tossed over again).

Eating
23.5 enjoyed burgers, but with lemon pepper on them
22.5 offered cheesecake -- he was very upset and refused to try it

since it's warmer, kimmo has been buying melons to share with the kids in the evenings. they love it.

Sleeping
He still is resistant to going to bed and staying in bed. Some nights are harder than others.
And almost 100% of the time he comes to sleep with äiti at some point during the night. Then he gets restless, and I take him to pee. Then he relaxes and sleeps well until morning.

5.6 skipped nap and slept easily at bedtime, right through morning. 

When he was sick he was so restless that we set up the travel crib for him. He seems to like it.


Health
31.5 Mouth hurting. Maybe that last tooth is coming. 
9-10.6 sick and stayed home from barnehage

Stats
Clothes: size 98/104. Shoes: size 25 or 26.

Teeth: 19 
Weight: 15.1 kg on 8.5 
Height: 93.5 cm on 1.5

Random
He says red is his favorite color.

28.5 after story time, Lumi and Otso were sweetly hugging each other and saying good night, when Otso grabbed Lumi's arm and asked "Can I eat this?"

He hates wearing pants/shorts/underwear. At the first opportunity, he usually takes them off. Our rule is that he has to have some layer of fabric on his bottom to sit on the sofa or at the kitchen table. Because of this, meals often start in tears because we have just forced him to put some underwear on. 
16.6 update to this: he has had several days where he keeps his pajama pants on at night (a positive development!) but then one of the first things he does upon awakening in the morning is take his pants off.

Evening quote from 13.6 : "I want to hit Lumi. I want to watch TV. "

07 June 2016

03 June 2016

Lumi: one more thing

I forgot to add to the monthly summary that Lumi has asked to watch hockey with Kimmo a few times.

Naturally, he loves this, and their bond has intensified. She even offered it as an activity after a big argument when she was trying to re-connect with her parents.

Lumi: 5 Years, 4 Months

Summary
Overall, it's been a great month for behavior for Lumi. She has been genuinely helpful with Otso and she's eating better too. Also, it's warming up around here and everything is easier (no snowsuits, no boots, no layer of wool under clothes), which is nice.

Events
5.5 - 8.5 trip to Stavanger
13.5 barnehage 17 Mai celebration
14.5 bbq and playing with Helena
16.5 Helmina's birthday party
17.5 Norway Constitution day
21.5 play with Helena
22.5 tram museum, over at Helena's house for Joachim's birthday
23-28.5 "barnehage uka" with visits to other barnehages and lots of activities. 
29.5 play date at Oliver's house
31.5 barnehage trip to the climbing park

Language
She is still not speaking very much Finnish at all, but her Norwegian and English are doing just fine.

She has picked up the rhetorical "are you serious?", as in "Where are your shoes?" "Äiti, are you serious? They're right here."

Learning
Both kids have been enjoying a new chore: throwing the trash bags down the chute. kimmo closes and ties the bags and then leaves them in the kitchen. the first kid who finds it is allowed to throw it out (open the door to the service elevator closet, open the hatch to the chute, put the bag in the hole, and close the chute).

Social
We had a lovely trip to Stavanger and really enjoyed seeing our old friends. Gemma and Lumi had a great time, and Lumi enjoyed Clémence too. She was especially taken with Marie, who had just turned 4 months old.

For a couple of weeks now, we have seen some real big-sisterly behavior. She helps Otso with little things, and shares with him, and gently encourages him to follow household rules. One of our favorites is that sometimes on weekend mornings we get to lay in bed for an extra 30 minutes while she helps him get toys out (and even remind him to do his morning potty!) and they amuse themselves peacefully for a while. It's wonderful.

Leisure
10.5 we're having lovely warm weather, so the kids brought swim suits and played with water at barnehage.

She loved the game "Bug Attack" at Helena's house.

We have a Lego Star Wars search-and-find book, and Lumi enjoys it. She has some friends at barnehage who are into Star Wars. We were looking through the book one day and Lumi asked "but where is Star Wars?" and "Star Wars" sounded really Norwegian the way she said it. So I launched into a long explanation about how Star Wars is all of this, and compared it to "My Little Pony" versus the individual ponies. I thought I was doing great, but then the next page, she pointed at Lego Darth Vader and said "there's Star Wars!". Oh. I explained a bit about Darth Vader and now she is really interested and though I think she is still too young for the movies, I think she will like some of the stories.

Food
She has been doing a better job lately of eating. Several times she told Gemma "you gotta try new food 'cause it might taste good!" (from Daniel Tiger).
Also, the rule about "5 pieces because I'm 5" is working well most of the time. 
14.5 she tried both brioche with melted cheese on it and gyoza. 
23.5 enjoyed burgers, but with lemon pepper on them
22.5 helped make buttermilk pudding, and loved it
22.5 first cheesecake -- she loved it

since it's warmer, kimmo has been buying melons (mostly watermelon) to share with the kids in the evenings. they love it.

Health
4.5 fell at barnehage and cut the back of her head open.
16.5 feverish and not feeling well
17.5 still not feeling well. we went out for about an hour for 17 Mai but she looked awful. (kimmo said "sad zombie").

Stats
size: 110 (5T) or bigger in most clothes. 28 shoe, maybe 29.
height: 110 cm on 1.5 
weight: 17.9 kg on 8.5

Random
8.5 we went to a kids jazz show at the Mai Jazz festival in Stavanger. Lumi enthusiastically responded and was a very vocal crowd participant.

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